Meet with Sophy to create a matchmaking experience that's tailored to your specific needs and desires.  Every client experience is uniquely curated to achieve the optimum end result.  Matchmaking packages include personalized match search and recruitment, date planning, feedback sessions, and coaching.  


The average person wastes 45 hours every month on aimless swiping. Imagine having a full-service online dating concierge - we do the swiping, the banter, the making plans—you go on dates!  We will also revamp your profile and do a photo consult.  Get your time, and your sanity back—Sophy Love can help.


Matchmaking and Online Dating Concierge services come with date coaching included!  When you start working with Sophy Love, we’ll discuss your dating goals, match criteria, support you need, everything to help accelerate and improve the quality of your dating experiences.  


Sophy Singer
Matchmaker. Founder.

First of all, she's been there.

Following the end of an engagement, Sophy went on countless dates, receiving mentoring and therapy while she was in the trenches of it. Over time, she noticed she was good at dating, and enjoyed the process—so much so that she developed a reputation as the person to come to for dating advice. She’s been working in the dating space ever since.  

In 2010 Sophy started date coaching and found her passion helping people find love. In 2016, she took a leap of faith when she quit her job and took her talents to the next level, joining the largest matchmaking firm in the nation. Sophy has worked with hundreds of clients and curated over one thousand matches.  There have been engagements, marriages, and babies to celebrate along the way.

If you’ve had all the dating hardship you can handle for one lifetime, let Sophy help. She’ll handle the hard stuff, so that you can get back to what dating used to be—fun. 


Tamar Caspi

Online Dating Specialist

Tamar used to believe you should accept every first date you’re asked on because you never knew when it was going to be your last. With that philosophy in mind, Tamar went on hundreds of first dates but only a few second dates and thought she had the dating game down to a science. If a guy didn’t check a box, she would check out. 

As her own journey unfolded, so too did her attitude towards dating: she realized that although dating is a numbers game, there’s no algorithm. Tamar knew it was time to change her approach -- and her mindset -- and to stop looking at dating as data. Tamar’s new outlook meant quality over quantity and being open to influence. 

Tamar had so many funny and shocking dating stories that she began writing about them in 2007 and her internationally-syndicated dating advice column turned into a book titled “How to Woo a Jew: The Modern Jewish Guide to Dating and Mating”. As an online dating consultant, Tamar has created and edited hundreds of profiles. 



Sometimes, you just need to hear that this works. Below, some success stories from Sophy Love’s clients.

We can’t wait to add yours.

Success! I met my husband on the second match that Sophy set me up with. It was an instant connection. Sophy was fantastic! She was kind, always available, and most importantly she truly listened to what I felt I needed and wanted. The fact that she took the time to get to know me gave me more hope and comfort. Honestly, she could not have found me a better partner. I am now happily married with a baby girl. I really love my family.  Thank you Sophy!


Sophy has taught me how to brave the dating world with no fear, no reservations, and no ego. I feel reassured that we are getting closer to finding my perfect match and I couldn't do it without her.


It takes great care and ability to be bring together two people who are searching for one another. The attention to detail from start to finish, the pep talks, the honest encouragement and quality of introductions truly set Sophy apart!

I. V.

Sophy has an intuitive nature. She is able to understand a person as if you were an old friend, in a rather remarkable fashion. She is kind, empathetic, accommodating, and a true ally in the scary world of dating. I feel that she actually listens to my concerns and her dating pep talks are the best! She is converting an exhausted dating cynic into an actual optimist.

D. V.

Sophy = matchmaking done right.  I imagine matchmaking done right is a challenging job, Sophy handled it with ease. Sophy is an awesome communicator and pays attention to detail. Finding a connection isn’t easy, but Sophy does all the heavy lifting and makes it fun in the process.

S. B.

Sophy has been an amazing matchmaker. This is my first time using any matchmaking service, and she has been there for me on so many levels. I don't have to swipe, vet or negotiate - she listens to what I'm looking for in a partner and goes out of her way to make sure I'm satisfied. This has been an extremely positive experience, and it's wonderful for people like me who are too busy and too old to keep swiping!


Sophy is a great no nonsense woman who listens to what you're really looking for. She is sweet and encouraging. She communicates well and gives great advice.


Engaging, real, realistic, understands dating world, genuine , insightful, good follow up and follow through. Seemed to get the first date right. Paired me with a quality person.


Sophy's a great human being! She understands me, she's patient, down to earth and has a great sense of humor. I like her a lot! She has most definately exceeded my expectations of a matchmaker!


I had been divorced for a number of years.  I thought I was fine by myself: I had friends, and activities, and I was happy.  But I was encouraged to take a chance, and rather than put myself on the internet, I found Sophy.  She was easy to open up to and helped me to really think about what was important to me moving forward.  She encouraged me to be open to the new experience of dating and she always listened.  On the second "date" that she set up, I met my fellow and we talked for hours.  We connected in so many ways that we knew we were the "right fit." We haven't been the same and we never will be. It has been two+ years and on the anniversary of our first date, we send a text to Sophy and thank her for putting us together.  Thanks Sophy, you have shown us our happy place, and it is brilliant.


Sophy is amazing! She came highly recommended from a friend and did NOT disappoint! I felt like she has a tremendous gift for listening and understanding what I was looking for in a future husband. And she delivered him as my first match! We hit it off from our first date and truly believe we are soul mates. We’ve been together for over a year and a half and recently bought a new house together with a wedding in the near future! I highly recommend Sophy if you’re serious about finding the partner you’ve been waiting for!




A Single Serving Podcast

Sophy Singer is a matchmaker—a real one. She's a natural connector of human beings who has spent years bringing people together, and this week she's sharing her perspective and insights as a matchmaker with the single community. This is a great listen for anyone looking to develop a positive and practical headspace around dating and singlehood. If you've ever been curious about matchmaking or wanted to pick a matchmaker's brain, you'll love this one.

Paste Magazine

Those clichéd red flags that we are always told to avoid? Sophy Singer, Tawkify matchmaker, strongly advises you do not ignore them. But when do they first surface, how can you identify them?

I Heart Intelligence

When someone thinks you’re special, they strike while the iron is hot. Before the date (or random social encounter) is over, they’re already testing the waters by making plans.” While Singer says they might not ask you right then and there, they will make a mention of something fun that the two of you might enjoy together in the future.


Own your time. Professional Matchmaker, Sophy Singer tells Bustle, "Shut down those endless texting sagas that lead nowhere. Create rules and stick to them." Don't entertain people who'll flake on you or can't commit to meeting up for a 15 minute coffee date.

Brit + Co

Learning how to navigate all the dating apps available to get what you want out of the experience might feel daunting, but matchmaker Sophy Singer has some advice to help you get started.



Dating isn’t really “dating” anymore, is it? It’s actually swiping, matching, back-and-forth messaging, making plans, going on dates, maybe getting ghosted, wondering what’s happening, getting frustrated, and then swiping and matching all over again. 

You’re a catch, and you deserve to feel like one. You are not destined to journey through life alone. If you’re over it, if you need support, working with Sophy will change the way you experience dating. 

Sophy Love is a professional dating coach and matchmaker with more than 10 years of experience bringing people together in relationships. We get it, we've been where you are, and we've dedicated our career to helping you find love. 

Discover how a matchmaker handles the hard stuff, while you focus on what matters—going on dates.