Executive Matchmaking
For Accomplished, Conscious singles
Executive Matchmaking
For Accomplished, Conscious singles
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Sophy Love is a boutique luxury matchmaking firm for accomplished singles who are ready for a relationship that lasts. We bring executive matchmaking, certified relationship coaching, managed digital dating, and curated singles events under one roof, so finding love stops feeling like a second job.
Sophy means wisdom.
Where most high-end matchmaking services stop at the introduction, we go deeper. Grounded in attachment theory, Internal Family Systems, and relational neuroscience, our matchmakers help you understand the patterns and values shaping who you choose. The result is not just better dates, but the kind of self-awareness that makes a great relationship possible, and lasting.
what we do
Why we created Sophy Love
Sophy means wisdom: the understanding that lasting love is built, not found. Sophy Love was created on that principle by founder Sophy Singer, who left one of the largest matchmaking firms in the country to build something more intentional. She saw accomplished people matched on logistics and looks, rarely on the patterns that decide whether love lasts. Today our team carries that same idea into every introduction: expert, human-led matchmaking with the psychological depth most services skip.
“I didn’t want to just set people up. I wanted to change the way they experience connection.”
Sophy Singer, Founder
What our Clients Say
Success! I met my husband on the second match that Sophy set me up with. It was an instant connection. Sophy was fantastic! She was kind, always available, and most importantly she truly listened to what I felt I needed and wanted. The fact that she took the time to get to know me gave me more hope and comfort. Honestly, she could not have found me a better partner. I am now happily married with a baby girl. I really love my family. Thank you Sophy!
Sophy has taught me how to brave the dating world with no fear, no reservations, and no ego. I feel reassured that we are getting closer to finding my perfect match and I couldn’t do it without her.
It takes great care and ability to bring together two people who are searching for one another. The attention to detail from start to finish, the pep talks, the honest encouragement and quality of introductions truly set Sophy apart!
Sophy has an intuitive nature. She is able to understand a person as if you were an old friend, in a rather remarkable fashion. She is kind, empathetic, accommodating, and a true ally in the scary world of dating. I feel that she actually listens to my concerns and her dating pep talks are the best! She is converting an exhausted dating cynic into an actual optimist.
Sophy = matchmaking done right. I imagine matchmaking done right is a challenging job, Sophy handled it with ease. Sophy is an awesome communicator and pays attention to detail. Finding a connection isn’t easy, but Sophy does all the heavy lifting and makes it fun in the process.
Sophy has been an amazing matchmaker. This is my first time using any matchmaking service, and she has been there for me on so many levels. I don’t have to swipe, vet or negotiate – she listens to what I’m looking for in a partner and goes out of her way to make sure I’m satisfied. This has been an extremely positive experience, and it’s wonderful for people like me who are too busy and too old to keep swiping!
Sophy is amazing! She came highly recommended from a friend and did NOT disappoint! I felt like she has a tremendous gift for listening and understanding what I was looking for in a future husband. And she delivered him as my first match! We hit it off from our first date and truly believe we are soul mates. We’ve been together for over a year and a half and recently bought a new house together with a wedding in the near future! I highly recommend Sophy if you’re serious about finding the partner you’ve been waiting for!
I had been divorced for a number of years. I thought I was fine by myself: I had friends, and activities, and I was happy. But I was encouraged to take a chance, and rather than put myself on the internet, I found Sophy. She was easy to open up to and helped me to really think about what was important to me moving forward. She encouraged me to be open to the new experience of dating and she always listened. On the second “date” that she set up, I met my fellow and we talked for hours. We connected in so many ways that we knew we were the “right fit.” We haven’t been the same and we never will be. It has been two+ years and on the anniversary of our first date, we send a text to Sophy and thank her for putting us together. Thanks Sophy, you have shown us our happy place, and it is brilliant.
Sophy listens to your story with compassion and kindness. Under her guidance, you feel less alone navigating the overwhelming and intimating world of dating (both online and in person). Ask Sophy for help, you won’t regret it…it could truly be the first step you take to finding that great love you have been searching for!
In working with Sophy, I felt like I was speaking with a good friend who had my best interests at heart. She took the time to get to know me, and where I was struggling. Our conversations were fun, educational, and supportive (even when they included some tough love). Most importantly, they involved thoughtful reflection, forcing me to articulate my feelings about dating in a way that I never had before. All of this helped me learn a lot about myself, and what qualities actually mattered to me in a prospective partner. Now I’m in the healthiest, happiest relationship of my life, and I firmly believe this would not have been possible without Sophy!
The course was one of the most powerful workshops of my life and it was exactly what I needed. I’ve been putting the practices into my life and watching the results show up almost everyday. It’s incredible. The work is like a key that is unlocking my life and allowing me to blow by blockages that I’ve tripped over for years. So again thank you, thank you, thank you.
At the Closer workshop, Ryel paired us up, and took us through guided questions meant to dig deep and really get to know one another. By the end, I felt like I hadn’t made meaningless small talk and that I hadn’t been robotically evaluating people with checklists, but instead getting to know them IN REAL LIFE. Since the workshop, I’ve been a lot more honest with the people I date, instead of hiding my emotions or trying to be someone else who has different preferences.
It’s impossible to learn how to build deeper connections alone, which is what makes Closer workshops so special. It’s the perfect way to practice showing up as your most authentic self with a group. Ryle creates an atmosphere that’s both fun, and educational which really helped me connect to myself while Sophy curated a group of like minded people. I came away with a few fun dates and a couple new friends.
Frequently Asked Questions
Sophy Love is a boutique executive matchmaking firm for accomplished singles who are done with dating apps. Founded by Sophy Singer in 2018, we replace endless swiping with human-led, hand-curated introductions, certified coaching, and managed digital dating. Every match is chosen by a real matchmaker around your values, never an algorithm.
Luxury matchmaking is a premium, fully personal alternative to dating apps, where a dedicated matchmaker hand-selects and vets every introduction for you. At Sophy Love, luxury means discretion, a deliberately small client roster, and a search built entirely around your life rather than a database. You meet fewer, far better-matched people.
Conscious dating is choosing partners through self-awareness rather than habit, attraction patterns, or convenience. Sophy Love makes it concrete: drawing on attachment theory and various modalities, like Internal Family Systems, we help you see the patterns shaping your choices, so every introduction rests on real compatibility instead of a surface-level checklist.
Closer Events are intimate, guided singles gatherings hosted by Sophy Love. Sometimes a matchmaker hand-picks a small group of compatible singles, drawn from our clients and Dating Directory members, then leads them through structured conversation and connection games. Sometimes, these are open events accessible to any member.
Closer Events replace small talk and swiping with real, in-person chemistry. Join Closer to attend.
The Dating Concierge service is full-service, done-for-you online dating. Our team handles app selection, profile and photo optimization, daily messaging, screening, and scheduling, so you skip the busywork entirely. You simply show up to vetted dates with people worth meeting while we manage everything behind the scenes.
Yes. Discretion is built into the Sophy Love process from your first consultation through every introduction. We never share or post your profile, never email your photos, and meet each candidate in person. Everything you tell your matchmaker stays strictly between the two of you.
Yes. The Dating Directory is our free entry point, with no matchmaking package required. As a member you are considered for future introductions whenever a compatible client is searching, and you receive invitations to Closer Events and singles classes. It is also the pool our team searches first when hand-selecting matches.
Getting started takes about two minutes. Click Get Started to create a private profile and tell us what you are looking for. From there you can join as a complimentary Dating Directory member or book a consultation to explore our services – executive matchmaking, coaching, or our Dating Concierge service.
Sophy Love is built for accomplished, intentional singles who are serious about a lasting relationship and finished with apps. If you would rather invest in a thoughtful, expert-led process than swipe through strangers, you are exactly who we work with. Our services range from free events to full executive matchmaking.
A matchmaker introduces you to compatible partners, acting as your personal recruiter for love by vetting and curating matches around your goals.
Dating strategy builds your confidence and skills so you show up at your best. The right strategy helps you read chemistry accurately, choose more deliberately, and show up as yourself, so you spend less time dating and more time with the right person.
At Sophy Love, both work together in every engagement, which is what sets our approach apart.
Sophy Love is not a subscription, a swipe, or a standardized package. We build each search by hand, because the relationship you are looking for was never going to come from a template.